I was having a conversation with a friend. In some context we happened to ponder about necessity.
It shook me roughly that what if polite gestures are considered to be done with a motive. It made me think if all the polite ones are actually mistaken the same way.
I won’t deny that there are many number of incidences which can make you believe that nobody cares and why would anyone be sweet for no reason. But, that’s not the point here.
The point here is the necessity. Is it a necessity to be nice because you are expectant of something in return or is it just out of free happy will that you be nice, calling it out as a virtue that you possess.
Looking at the other way around, a necessity, like we know it better as, mother of innovation. Is it driving you? Are you waiting for your necessity to make you something? Time is to question, time is to find out.
Also, there are necessities that’ll be forced upon you, against your will, just like opinions are imposed.
The whole scenario being, what are you going to do about it? Change the way you function to accomodate that too or go disruptive and forget things that you knew of earlier, to cope up with the imposition ?
Necessity could mean just a requirement or a desperate need or just an enabler.
On the other side of a story, you don’t need a reason or a necessity to do something. You do, because you want to. Isn’t it? 😉